問答無用,道歉也無用

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[不指定 2008/02/19 13:21 | by beck ]
拜讀本日《都市日報》「兵器譜」一欄有感。

開筆時剛巧遇著肥姐去世消息,未來一兩天有望令全港報章焦點稍為轉移,但相信不會持久。一單本來僅屬娛樂圈醜聞,道德上並非什麼不見得光的事,卻連日佔據各大小報章A1+C1頭版,一切似是理所當然,卻又令人費解。

近日主角阿嬌出席無線賬災籌款節目,換來的不是善款上升而是即時的收視急跌和兩日來超過千九宗投訴,原本的籌款好意頓時充滿「娛樂性」,連內地雪災多嚴重和籌款數字多少也沒人在意。哇。外國人唔知隨時以為節目很黃很暴力,香港人又霎時間「道德」起來了。

早前阿嬌「很天真很傻」的道歉聲明被抨擊為虛偽、出自他人手筆等,我亦只以「笑話」來看(事實上整件事我也是當笑片來看),但一個平日「咁呢」「咁咯」常掛嘴邊的天真女人,可以當眾宣讀一段可能對內心有極大衝突的聲明而保持表面上冷靜,已付出無比勇氣和決心。

如果一句虛偽真的可以解釋,請隨便在旺角找個女孩子,著她把聲明當街照字大聲讀出來,看看有幾多人睬你。




事件看來其實跟去年五月左右爆發的「中大學生報」事件相似,相似的正是由傳媒(尤其好些八卦雜誌)所引導的社會大眾心態。

「有否交待清楚事件」成為記者發掘或製造新聞而窮追猛打的理由,道歉與否跟事件會否導向解決亦無關,因為當某人犯錯,不道歉就是你死撐,道了歉就是你虛偽意圖淡化事件(亦即打爛班記者飯碗),站出來道歉要吃一臉擲來的蕃茄雞蛋還不止,之後還要面對傳媒坊間可能變本加厲的批評,而且多數由理性變成無理取鬧,甚至人身攻擊。

原來,道歉後果比死撐更不堪設想。難怪當時學生報死守得以平反,阿嬌卻繼續吃盡傳媒苦頭。

怎樣解決呢?我說的,去死吧。反正香港傳媒所引領的道德大軍絕對樂於看見「受害者」被虐殺,而且既然道不道歉後果沒差,連退出娛樂圈也會繼續被狗仔隊跟蹤做新聞,不如避世或離世吧。死了最多話妳愚蠢幾個星期,以香港人健忘的習性通常沒半年就被人遺忘乾淨了。

性學家游靜在學生報事件說過,香港傳媒是變態的。至於怎樣變態,大可參照「壹週刊」關於事件的用字和報導手法。

或者就是不信道歉的心態,香港人面對他人犯錯很多時只會一口咬定對方錯實,自己站在道德高地自封崇高、自詡不可置疑。對方的道歉不論真誠與否,也當是掩飾犯錯和逃避責任的行徑,從而抹殺對方應有的改正機會。以前的家教和師教會教人要學會認錯,但當現在認錯只引來反效果時,道歉彷彿已失卻作用,大家一齊死撐到底,甚至大家一齊扮駱駝詐作沒事,那麼做錯大小事情也不怕有人追究。

難怪,老一輩會說我們沒家教。
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